Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Michael Jackson's Memorial Speakers Hardly Knew Him


This was way too obvious. I actually thought about this when watching the memorial on tv. I thought well how many of those ppl were actually close to michael? turns out none. The people that were close to Michael decided not to go to his memorial. check out this info.



The majority of boldfaced names at Michael Jackson's July 6 memorial at Los Angeles' Staples Center hadn't spoken to the the singer in years.

Many never even met him at all.

Brooke Shields - who broke down in tears as she remembered her "true friend" - last saw Jackson (whom she met as a teenager) 18 years ago at Elizabeth Taylor's 1991 wedding. (At the memorial, she recalled how the two of them sneaked into Taylor's room for a peek at her dress.)

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Corey Feldman -- who befriended Jackson in the 1980s -- also hadn't talked to the star in several years after having a falling out. Feldman ended up wearing a Jackson costume to the ceremony. "I'm just drained," he told Us.

Many of Jackson's close friends were no-shows: Macaulay Culkin, ex-wife Lisa Marie Presley, Webster's Emmanuel Lewis, among others.

Quincy Jones, Jackson's longtime producer, and Diana Ross -- who was named in Jackson's will as a backup guardian to Jackson's three children -- also skipped the ceremony. Ross said she was at the memorial "in spirit," but that she "decided to pause and be silent" because it "feels right."

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Arnold Klein, Jackson's longtime dermatologist and biological father to his two oldest children, was also noticeably absent. Debbie Rowe, mother of Jackson's two eldest children, said she skipped because she felt she'd "be an unnecessary distraction."

As for Elizabeth Taylor? She said she stayed home because she didn't want to "be a part of the public whoopla."

Even Jesse Jackson, who counseled the singer during his trial, was not present to speak. (A source tells Us Joe Jackson dislikes him and made sure Rev. Al Sharpton -- who laughed about Jackson during a 2008 discussion on race -- delivered a speech instead.)

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Instead, most of the people who paid tribute to Jackson at Tuesday's memorial never met him at all.

Queen Latifah, who eulogized the singer, told David Letterman: "I never actually got to meet him. My partner met him because we managed Naughty by Nature and they did a remix with him. He thought I had beautiful cheekbones."

John Mayer -- who performed an instrumental version of "Human Nature" -- told Larry King he also "never met" the King of Pop. His only connection was listening to Thriller as a teen. He said the Jackson family asked him to perform. (The Los Angeles Times' Ann Powers remarked, "I don't know why John Mayer is here. Was Slash not available?")

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Jennifer Hudson -- who performed "Will You Be There" -- also had no prior relationship with Jackson. Mariah Carey covered the Jackson 5 classic "I'll Be There," which she sang at the memorial. Though she worked with Jackson on his 2001 charity single "What More Can I Give?" she wasn't close with the singer, a source tells Us.

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Usher, who sobbed and touched Jackson's coffin while singing "Gone Too Soon," performed with Jackson at his 2001 celebration concert at New York City's Madison Square Garden. But "their contact was minimal," the source tells Us, even though Usher has stated how influential Jackson was on his career.

Twelve-year-old Britain's Got Talent finalist Shaheen Jafargholi's connection to Jackson? He toured as a young Jackson in the Thriller Live show and sang the Jackson 5 cover version of "Who's Loving You" on Britain's Got Talent.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

U don't know what type of realationship the performers had with him.. And at the end of the day it doesn't really matter.. They were all asked by the Jackson Family to perform so they did and all did an amazing job..

Sweet-n-Stuff said...

I believe the fact that most of the people who spoke, performed, or contributed in any way to the memorial has no bearing on the value of Michael as a human being nor the life he lived. In a backward sort of way, it makes sense. I assume those closest to him would have been too emotionally devastated to speak on live TV by way to honor and celebrate his life. I know if I had been one of his close friends, I would not have been part of the memorial either. I would've made it my business to say and do all for Michael possible while he lived.

The fact is, Michael was/is still influential to many people whether he knew them personally or not. That's what an Icon is, that's what an Icon does. As human beings, we are supposed to sympathize and empathize with one another. In order for us to be connected the way God intends, when one hurts, we all are to feel a little of that pain, when one rejoices, we are all to rejoice. But because so many have hardened their hearts, there is not much "sharing of the feelings" going on. Why? Because too many negative emotions and conditions have gotten in the way. Like what? The main ones are the most deadly; jealousy, gluttony, greed, lust, laziness, hatred, and pride. I'm sorry, I don't mean to get on a soap box, but as human beings, we have got try to get back in touch with the very essence of our humanity; compassion.

Laila said...

Thanks for the comment Anon & SE!

John Mayer was asked his connection to MJ & he said that he'd never met him but music is its own special connection (I'm paraphrasing). I've never met Michael either but I feel a special connection to him b/c of his music. It's like he's been right here with me since I was 5 years old. His death feels like that of a close relative/friend to me. So what Brooke Shields hadn't spent time with him in years, they could have talked over the phone daily or even if they didn't, that doesn't make them any less friends than a person he saw daily. Hell, he saw this Murray dude everyday & he frickin' killed him! Sorry, MJ's death is still a very touchy thing for me! Now there are some people who I would question (not the ones at the memorial but some others who talk about how much of an inspiration he was when asked about it). I think some people just say what they feel they should say at a time like this... IDK... I'm just still sad... very, very sad =(